The INFJ Female is graceful. Her grace is what draws you in. But ultimately, it is what scares you away.
You may not find an INFJ female. If you do, you’ll probably overlook her.
After all, INFJ’s make up approximately 1.5% of the population in the U.S. That’s a small populous of people – definitely!
I am an INFJ female. I am a quiet loner who doesn’t mind being alone and I may not come across as lonely (although I can feel that way if I allow myself to dwell) – which, I am not a fan of doing, at all.
I am in indifferent to being alone.
I will never force my way into any conversation, and I will seldom start one (unless I am highly upset, or feel I need to address an important issue). I will likely appear quiet, and demure, but if spoken to, I may likely spark something within you.
I will not beg for your attention. I will show you care, and compassion, attention, and empathy – but eventually, if I feel like I am a burden, if I feel unwanted, I will slowly retreat. If it continues, you will be faced with a hard door-slam – and no, I will not look back.
My sincerity comes through beautifully with a subtle power. My thoughts are deeper than one may expect – but the perfect level to make you think. I am like the strike upon a match that ignites the flame.
I will provoke the thoughts that drive out your passion.
I will exhaust your mind a bit if you allow me to because I will make you think past your comfort zone.
Most people will not take the time, nor effort, to do the mental digging that I do so easily. You might uncover that you like me, but you may not know why. There will be, however, something you can’t put your finger on. I am uncomfortable for you – there’s a bit of mystery you may feel at the thought of me. It’ll be absolutely so vexing that you can’t figure it out.
More often than not, I am weird enough that people keep a safe distance. Not safe from me, per se, but your own self doubt. Your insecurity will stem from your inability to figure me out. I will, in all likelihood, keep going my own way, doing whatever I can to move forward, offering whatever I can, whenever I can, to those willing to get close to me and allow me in their life.
The grace of an INFJ will be what sets us apart. It’s what draws you in. But ultimately, it is what scares you away.
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