It’s a personal choice … it may and will vary for everyone. We all have different needs and goals, dreams and aspirations. What might feel right for one, will indeed feel wrong to another.
You should never feel guilty about wanting to spend your physical life with someone else right now – someone who can provide you with the things you’re seeking.
For me, I don’t want to settle. I want nothing more than for you to be in my life, and for me to be part of yours. I did not find you intentionally – rather, coincidentally. I remember finding you, and it was that moment in time that things have never been quite the same.
It is hard to see you spending your life with someone else… and while I understand your situation, it doesn’t make things any easier. I chose a path of challenge, uncertainty and difficulty. Certainly I could have remained where I was, albeit, toxic and miserable… However, I wasn’t willing to settle just for the sake of being in a relationship – even a relationship that was affecting my health, mindset and psyche.
But I understand that not everyone is me… and for many, the financial implications far outweigh the ability to make changes.
I have a very solid view about what I expect to receive, what I am willing to give, should I enter a partnership/relationship at any point in my future. I have high expectations of myself in terms of my relationships with others – as such, I never wanted mediocrity from a relationship.
After meeting you, I fully understand what I always meant. I look around me at other couples and I cringe at the supposed “love” between some of them – if that is what love looks like, I’ll pass.
I’d rather be working towards existing in a state of pure, unconditional love and compassion for those around me, than what I feel like would be a waste of time getting to know someone who doesn’t make my soul burn with desire the way you do.
You are the only person that can satisfy me on every level.
You are my heart.
Some people are eager to settle down, get married, have kids…others have the innate need to be with someone – regardless of whether the relationship is one of pure, unadulterated love and compassion. In other words, some people will settle – in fear that they won’t find anyone else, or that they can’t make it on their own. It takes a very strong person to be comfortable being alone – not everyone can do that; hence, some will essentially “settle” .. leaving the possibility of a rich, colorful, vibrant love far out of scope.
God will bring people into our lives at every turn – it’s up to us to discern how they make us feel. If your heart allows you to fall for another person, and they make you incredibly happy, how would denying that benefit you? You’ll never know unless you give things a chance.
Your life is yours.
You get to be the one to make decisions about how you want it to play out for you.
Energetically speaking – no one will ever compare to you. I’m not willing to settle for anyone or anything else but you.
When words are never needed, and I understand you on a soul level, nobody will ever compare. Nobody will ever compare.
When someone satisfies you mind, body and spirits, it’s impossible to find one who can compete, or even compare. If you are fortunate, it will naturally flow.
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