It’s not enough to have a man who loves you. Love is not the only basis of the relationship. Love is not the only thing that can solidify the relationship.
He loves you BUT… he makes you feel small.
He loves you BUT…he cheats.
He loves you BUT he wants you to be his mommy, his servant and his maid.
He loves you BUT he got a chick on the side.
He loves you BUT he can’t spend time with you.
STOP!
Ladies – what the hell are you thinking? There are lots of men that can love. You can love BUT still not treat someone right! Loving someone BUT is not enough!
Find you a man that truly loves you AND….can truly BE a man!
Find you a man that loves you AND shows it.
Find you a man that loves you AND can be faithful.
Find a man that loves you AND can speak life into you.
Find a man that loves you AND can make your life better, not worse.
Find a man that loves you AND can love your children.
Find a man that loves you AND can communicate effectively.
Find a man that loves you AND can show up for you consistently – because if he can’t show up consistently now, he will never consistently show up later.
If you are going to find a man, find a man that can love you AND can do the other things. Because that’s what you deserve. Anyone else is not a man!
You deserve a man that can love AND… not a man that loves BUT those other things.
Not just any man. Find a qualified man.
Be a love, AND type of person.
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