In a relationship, can you have love without loyalty? Or loyalty without love?
Spending time alone is one of the best ways to find out what is truly important to you in a relationship. Up until I got divorced, very little of my time was spent alone.
Fast forward to now, and the majority of my time is spent in solitude. Years ago, I would have scoffed at the concept of being in solitude… because I would have thought “I can’t possibly be alone.” However, it is that very thing [solitude] that has transformed my life in a ridiculous way.